Maintaining a Balance after marriage

Hazrat Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) mentioned:

On one occasion Hazrat Moulana Muhammed Yaqoob Saheb (Rahmatullahi Alaihi) mentioned that when a person gets married, generally it is noticed that he spends more time with his in-laws. In doing so, there is a fear that he does not observe the due rights of his own family members. Therefore one should be mindful in this regard that he maintains a balance and ensures he fulfils the rights he owes to both parties. (Malfoozaat Hakeemul Ummat 1/71)