{"id":7120,"date":"2014-12-01T15:53:46","date_gmt":"2014-12-01T13:53:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=7120"},"modified":"2018-02-13T08:05:59","modified_gmt":"2018-02-13T06:05:59","slug":"considering-the-feelings-of-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=7120","title":{"rendered":"Considering the Feelings of Others"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"margin-top:6.8pt;margin-right:0cm;margin-bottom:13.6pt;margin-left:&lt;br \/&gt;\n0cm;line-height:14.8pt\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Wood-path.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" alt=\"Wood-path\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-6242\" src=\"http:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Wood-path-300x225.jpg\" style=\"width: 220px; height: 165px; margin: 5px;\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">Hazrat Thaanwi (Rahmatullahi Alaihi) mentions:<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 6.8pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-bottom: 13.6pt; line-height: 14.8pt; text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;\">Once, there was a pious person whose wife used to harass him a lot.&nbsp; It reached such a point that people noticed the inconvenience she was putting him through. Some concerned people even suggested to him that he should divorce her. He replied, &ldquo;I also considered that option. However, when I had given it a moment of thought it occurred to me that if perhaps after divorcing her, she does not remarry; will this not be a means of inconvenience to her? If perchance she does remarry, then she may harass the second husband in the manner I am being treated. Hence, I decided to endure this difficulty and safeguard another Muslim from difficulty and inconvenience. As long as I am alive, why should I cause inconvenience to my wife or be the means for another Muslim undergoing unnecessary difficulty?&quot; (Jawaahir Paare)<o:p><\/o:p><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hazrat Thaanwi (Rahmatullahi Alaihi) mentions: Once, there was a pious person whose wife used to harass him a lot.&nbsp; It reached such a point that people noticed the inconvenience she was putting him through. Some concerned people even suggested to him that he should divorce her. He replied, &ldquo;I also considered that option. However, when &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[360,313],"tags":[149,457],"class_list":["post-7120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","","category-being-considerate-about-the-feelings-of-people","category-scattered-pearls","tag-consideration","tag-scattered-pearls"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7120"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7120\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7131,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7120\/revisions\/7131"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}