{"id":25962,"date":"2026-07-11T15:21:12","date_gmt":"2026-07-11T13:21:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=25962"},"modified":"2026-07-11T15:40:07","modified_gmt":"2026-07-11T13:40:07","slug":"sunnats-and-aadaab-when-dealing-with-neighbours-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=25962","title":{"rendered":"Sunnats and Aadaab when dealing with neighbours \u2013 4"},"content":{"rendered":"

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11. One should exercise patience over the difficulties experienced from his neighbour, whether he is a muslim or a non-muslim. If one wishes to address any such issue with his neighbour, then he should do so with respect and dignity.<\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u0630\u0631 \u0623\u0646 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0625\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0632 \u0648\u062c\u0644 \u064a\u062d\u0628 \u062b\u0644\u0627\u062b\u0629 \u0648\u064a\u0628\u063a\u0636 \u062b\u0644\u0627\u062b\u0629…\u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0631\u062c\u0644 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0644\u0647 \u062c\u0627\u0631 \u0633\u0648\u0621 \u064a\u0624\u0630\u064a\u0647 \u0641\u0635\u0628\u0631 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0623\u0630\u0627\u0647\u060c \u062d\u062a\u0649 \u064a\u0643\u0641\u064a\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0625\u064a\u0627\u0647 \u0628\u062d\u064a\u0627\u0629 \u0623\u0648 \u0645\u0648\u062a… \u00a0\u0631\u0648\u0627\u0647 \u0623\u062d\u0645\u062f \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0637\u0628\u0631\u0627\u0646\u064a\u060c \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0641\u0638 \u0644\u0647\u060c \u0648\u0625\u0633\u0646\u0627\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0628\u0631\u0627\u0646\u064a \u0648\u0623\u062d\u062f \u0625\u0633\u0646\u0627\u062f\u064a \u0623\u062d\u0645\u062f \u0631\u062c\u0627\u0644\u0647 \u0631\u062c\u0627\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d. (\u0645\u062c\u0645\u0639 \u0627\u0644\u0632\u0648\u0627\u0626\u062f\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 13573)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Abu Zar (radhiyallahu anhua) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cAllah Ta\u2019ala loves three people and dislikes three people. (Among the people whom Allah Ta\u2019ala loves is) a person who has an evil neighbour who causes harm to him, and he patiently endures his harm until Allah Ta\u2019ala suffices him against him, either through life or death (i.e. through Allah Ta\u2019ala giving that person a chance to change his ways in his lifetime or through that person passing away).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

It is reported regarding Hazrat Hasan Basri (rahimahullah) that he had a neighbour who was a Christian. Hazrat Hasan Basri (rahimahullah) lived in the lower storey of the building, while his Christian neighbour lived above him in the upper level. The sewage of his Christian neighbour from the upper level used to leak into his home. However, Hazrat Hasan Basri (rahimahullah) never complained to his neighbour nor informed him of this.<\/p>\n

Hazrat Hasan (rahimahullah) instructed that a container be placed beneath the leak so that the sewage would fall into it and would not mess his home. At night, when there was no one to observe what was happening, he would take the container out of his home and dispose of the sewage.<\/p>\n

One day, when Hazrat Hasan (rahimahullah) was ill, his Christian neighbour came to visit him. When he entered the home of Hazrat Hasan (rahimahullah) and saw the container filled with sewage, he realized that it was coming from his home. In embarrassment, he asked, \u201cHow long has this sewage been leaking for?\u201d Hazrat Hasan Basri (rahimahullah) replied, \u201cFor the last twenty years.\u201d\u00a0 Upon hearing this, the neighbour was so overcome and affected by the patient and tolerant conduct of Hazrat Hasan Basri (rahimahullah) that he immediately removed his traditional Christian garment and accepted Islam. (Al-Imtaa\u2019 wal-Mu\u2019aanasah 2\/129)<\/p>\n

12. When relocating to any place, then among the important aspects which one should keep in mind before purchasing a house in that place, is for one to see the type of people residing in the neighbourhood of that place.<\/p>\n

If the people residing in the neighbourhood are muslims with good Islamic values, and the environment is a deeni environment e.g. one is in close proximity to a musjid, madrasah etc. then one should move into such a neighbourhood.<\/p>\n

One should refrain from residing in a neighbourhood where only non-muslims reside, or where the majority of the residents are non-muslims.<\/p>\n

Similarly, if the place one considers relocating to is detrimental to one\u2019s deen and the deen of one’s family e.g. being in close proximity to pubs, nightclubs, churches, temples, etc., then one should not purchase a house in such a place.<\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0631\u0627\u0641\u0639 \u0628\u0646 \u062e\u062f\u064a\u062c \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645: \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0645\u0633\u0648\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u062c\u0627\u0631 \u0642\u0628\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0627\u0631 (\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0639\u062c\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u0628\u064a\u0631 \u0644\u0644\u0637\u0628\u0631\u0627\u0646\u064a\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 4379)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Raafi bin Khadeej (radhiyallahu anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cSearch and look for good neighbours before you look for the house (i.e. before deciding to purchase any house in the neighbourhood, ensure the neighbourhood has an environment of Islam).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

13. If one intends to sell his house, then he should offer it to his neighbour before offering it to others.<\/p>\n

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Hazrat ibnu Abbaas (radhiyallahu anhuma) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cWhoever has a land which he intends to sell, then he should present it (first) to his neighbour (before offering it to others).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

14. Do not pry into your neighbour\u2019s personal affairs. This is not permissible and is against nobility and respect. Prying into any person’s personal affairs is not permissible.<\/p>\n

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Hazrat Abu Hurairah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cRefrain from entertaining suspicion (regarding people), for indeed suspicion is the biggest form of lies (which is contained in the heart). And do not look out for people’s faults, and do not spy on them, and do not bear jealousy for one another, and do not turn your back on each other (do not cut off ties from each other), and do not harbour enmity for each other. And remain as servants of Allah, living among each other as brothers.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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