{"id":22409,"date":"2024-11-09T16:37:08","date_gmt":"2024-11-09T14:37:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=22409"},"modified":"2024-11-16T16:29:02","modified_gmt":"2024-11-16T14:29:02","slug":"sunnats-and-aadaab-which-every-person-needs-to-adhere-to-in-his-individual-life-8","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=22409","title":{"rendered":"Sunnats and Aadaab which every person needs to adhere to in his individual life \u2013 8"},"content":{"rendered":"

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20. The people one befriends should be people of piety and taqwa. Through taking such people as friends, one will be motivated towards inculcating the sunnah and upholding the laws of deen in one\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

One should refrain from taking non-Muslims as friends as we have been prohibited from this in the Quraan and Hadith. Similarly, one should refrain from taking such people as close friends who are not committed to deen.<\/p>\n

Allah Ta’ala mentions in the Quraan Majeed:<\/p>\n

\u06cc\u0670\u06e4\u0627\u064e\u06cc\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u06cc\u0652\u0646\u064e \u0627\u0670\u0645\u064e\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0652\u0627 \u0644\u064e\u0627\u062a\u064e\u062a\u0651\u064e\u062e\u0650\u0630\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u06a9\u0670\u0641\u0650\u0631\u0650\u06cc\u0652\u0646\u064e \u0627\u064e\u0648\u0652\u0644\u0650\u06cc\u064e\u0627\u06e4\u0621\u064e \u0645\u0650\u0646\u0652 \u062f\u064f\u0648\u0652\u0646\u0650 \u0627\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0650\u06cc\u0652\u0646\u064e (\u0627\u0644\u0646\u0633\u0627\u0621:144)<\/p>\n

O you who believe! Do not take the disbelievers as friends instead of the believers!<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u0647\u0631\u064a\u0631\u0629 \u0623\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0628\u064a \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0627\u0644\u0631\u062c\u0644 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u062f\u064a\u0646 \u062e\u0644\u064a\u0644\u0647\u060c \u0641\u0644\u064a\u0646\u0638\u0631 \u0623\u062d\u062f\u0643\u0645 \u0645\u0646 \u064a\u062e\u0627\u0644\u0644 (\u0633\u0646\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u062f\u0627\u0648\u062f\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 4833)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Abu Hurairah (radhiyallahu anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cA man follows the ways of his friend, therefore one should be careful as to who one befriends.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0627\u0628\u0646 \u0639\u0628\u0627\u0633 \u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0642\u064a\u0644 \u064a\u0627 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0623\u064a \u062c\u0644\u0633\u0627\u0626\u0646\u0627 \u062e\u064a\u0631 \u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0645\u0646 \u0630\u0643\u0631\u0643\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0631\u0624\u064a\u062a\u0647 \u0648\u0632\u0627\u062f \u0641\u064a \u0639\u0644\u0645\u0643\u0645 \u0645\u0646\u0637\u0642\u0647 \u0648\u0630\u0643\u0631\u0643\u0645 \u0628\u0627\u0644\u0622\u062e\u0631\u0629 \u0639\u0645\u0644\u0647 (\u0645\u0633\u0646\u062f \u0623\u0628\u064a \u064a\u0639\u0644\u0649\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 2437)<\/p>\n

Hazrat ibnu Abbaas (radhiyallahu anhuma) reports that once Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) was asked the following question by a Sahaabi, \u201cWhich person should we associate with and take as our companion?\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) replied, \u201cThe one who when you see him, you are reminded of Allah Ta\u2019ala; when he speaks, your knowledge of deen increases; and when you look at his actions, you are reminded of the Hereafter.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u0645\u0648\u0633\u0649 \u0631\u0636\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0646\u0647 \u0639\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0628\u064a \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0645\u062b\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u062c\u0644\u064a\u0633 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0627\u0644\u062d \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0633\u0648\u0621 \u0643\u062d\u0627\u0645\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0633\u0643 \u0648\u0646\u0627\u0641\u062e \u0627\u0644\u0643\u064a\u0631 \u0641\u062d\u0627\u0645\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0633\u0643 \u0625\u0645\u0627 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u062d\u0630\u064a\u0643 \u0648\u0625\u0645\u0627 \u0623\u0646 \u062a\u0628\u062a\u0627\u0639 \u0645\u0646\u0647 \u0648\u0625\u0645\u0627 \u0623\u0646 \u062a\u062c\u062f \u0645\u0646\u0647 \u0631\u064a\u062d\u0627 \u0637\u064a\u0628\u0629 \u0648\u0646\u0627\u0641\u062e \u0627\u0644\u0643\u064a\u0631 \u0625\u0645\u0627 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u062d\u0631\u0642 \u062b\u064a\u0627\u0628\u0643 \u0648\u0625\u0645\u0627 \u0623\u0646 \u062a\u062c\u062f \u0631\u064a\u062d\u0627 \u062e\u0628\u064a\u062b\u0629 (\u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0627\u0644\u0628\u062e\u0627\u0631\u064a\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 5534)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Abu Musa (radhiyallahu anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cThe example of a pious companion and a bad companion is like a person carrying musk and a person fanning a fire. As for (remaining in the company of) the person carrying musk, then either he will give you (some musk) as a gift, or you can purchase it from him, or (at the very least), you will enjoy a pleasant fragrance (while remaining in his company). As for (remaining in the company of) the person fanning the fire, then either he will burn your clothing, or (at the very least) you will perceive the unpleasant smell (of the smoke).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

21. Ensure that at all times you remain in the company of pious people. If you are in the company of people who are engaged in gheebat or buhtaan (slandering someone), then you should stop them from this sin. If they do not refrain from the wrong, or you are unable to stop them, then you should wake up and leave the gathering.<\/p>\n

Allah Ta\u2019ala mentions in the Quraan Majeed:<\/p>\n

\u200f \u064a\u064e\u0623\u064e\u064a\u0651\u064f\u0647\u064e\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0630\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e \u0622\u0645\u064e\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0627\u062a\u0651\u064e\u0642\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0651\u064e\u0647\u064e \u0648\u064e\u0643\u064f\u0648\u0646\u064f\u0648\u0627 \u0645\u064e\u0639\u064e \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0651\u062f\u0650\u0642\u0650\u064a\u0646\u064e (\u0627\u0644\u062a\u0648\u0628\u0629: 119)<\/p>\n

O you who believe! Fear Allah and be with those who are true (in word and deed).<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u0647\u0631\u064a\u0631\u0629\u060c \u0623\u0646 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645\u060c \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0623\u062a\u062f\u0631\u0648\u0646 \u0645\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u063a\u064a\u0628\u0629\u061f \u0642\u0627\u0644\u0648\u0627: \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0648\u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644\u0647 \u0623\u0639\u0644\u0645\u060c \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0630\u0643\u0631\u0643 \u0623\u062e\u0627\u0643 \u0628\u0645\u0627 \u064a\u0643\u0631\u0647 \u0642\u064a\u0644 \u0623\u0641\u0631\u0623\u064a\u062a \u0625\u0646 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0641\u064a \u0623\u062e\u064a \u0645\u0627 \u0623\u0642\u0648\u0644\u061f \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0625\u0646 \u0643\u0627\u0646 \u0641\u064a\u0647 \u0645\u0627 \u062a\u0642\u0648\u0644\u060c \u0641\u0642\u062f \u0627\u063a\u062a\u0628\u062a\u0647\u060c \u0648\u0625\u0646 \u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0643\u0646 \u0641\u064a\u0647 \u0641\u0642\u062f \u0628\u0647\u062a\u0647 (\u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 2589)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Abu Hurairah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) asked, \u201cDo you know what is gheebah?\u201d The Sahaabah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhum) replied, \u201cAllah Ta\u2018ala and His messenger know best.\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cSpeaking about your brother (in his absence) of that which he would dislike.\u201d A Sahaabi asked, \u201cWhat if what I am saying is (true and) found in my brother (then too will it be gheebah)?\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) replied, \u201cIf what you say regarding him is (true and) found in him, then you have backbit him, and if what you mention regarding him is not found in him, then you have slandered him.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0648\u0639\u0646 \u062c\u0627\u0628\u0631 \u0648\u0623\u0628\u064a \u0637\u0644\u062d\u0629 \u0631\u0636\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0646\u0647\u0645\u0627 \u0623\u0646 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0645\u0627 \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0645\u0631\u0626 \u064a\u062e\u0630\u0644 \u0627\u0645\u0631\u0623 \u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645\u0627 \u0641\u064a \u0645\u0648\u0636\u0639 \u062a\u0646\u062a\u0647\u0643 \u0641\u064a\u0647 \u062d\u0631\u0645\u062a\u0647 \u0648\u064a\u0646\u062a\u0642\u0635 \u0641\u064a\u0647 \u0645\u0646 \u0639\u0631\u0636\u0647 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u062e\u0630\u0644\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0641\u064a \u0645\u0648\u0637\u0646 \u064a\u062d\u0628 \u0641\u064a\u0647 \u0646\u0635\u0631\u062a\u0647 \u0648\u0645\u0627 \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0645\u0631\u0626 \u064a\u0646\u0635\u0631 \u0645\u0633\u0644\u0645\u0627 \u0641\u064a \u0645\u0648\u0636\u0639 \u064a\u0646\u062a\u0642\u0635 \u0641\u064a\u0647 \u0645\u0646 \u0639\u0631\u0636\u0647 \u0648\u064a\u0646\u062a\u0647\u0643 \u0641\u064a\u0647 \u0645\u0646 \u062d\u0631\u0645\u062a\u0647\u060c \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0646\u0635\u0631\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0641\u064a \u0645\u0648\u0637\u0646 \u064a\u062d\u0628 \u0646\u0635\u0631\u062a\u0647 (\u0633\u0646\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u062f\u0627\u0648\u062f\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 4884)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Jaabir and Hazrat Abu Talhah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhuma) report that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cWhichever person forsakes a Muslim in a place where his respect is being violated and his reputation is being tarnished, Allah Ta\u2018ala will forsake him on the occasion when he would greatly hope and desire for Allah Ta\u2018ala\u2019s help (whether in this world or in the aakhirah). And whosoever helps a Muslim in such a place where his reputation is being tarnished and his respect is being violated, Allah Ta\u2018ala will help him on the occasion when he would greatly hope and desire for Allah Ta\u2018ala\u2019s help (whether in this world or in the aakhirah).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddeeq (radhiyallahu anhu) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cThere are no people among whom sin takes place openly, and they have the ability to prevent the wrong yet they do not prevent it, except that Allah Ta\u2018ala will soon engulf all of them in a severe punishment.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

20. The people one befriends should be people of piety and taqwa. Through taking such people as friends, one will be motivated towards inculcating the sunnah and upholding the laws of deen in one\u2019s life. One should refrain from taking non-Muslims as friends as we have been prohibited from this in the Quraan and Hadith. …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":22411,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[64,837],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22409","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-sunnats","category-sunnats-and-aadaab-which-every-person-needs-to-adhere-to-in-his-individual-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22409","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=22409"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22409\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22468,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22409\/revisions\/22468"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/22411"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=22409"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=22409"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=22409"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}