{"id":20964,"date":"2023-09-23T16:56:53","date_gmt":"2023-09-23T14:56:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=20964"},"modified":"2023-11-23T06:46:43","modified_gmt":"2023-11-23T04:46:43","slug":"sunnats-and-aadaab-of-the-upbringing-of-children-part-9","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=20964","title":{"rendered":"Sunnats and Aadaab of the Upbringing of Children \u2013 Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"

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9. As the child grows up, the parents should ensure that the child is always exposed to good environments and is protected from wrong environments. <\/span><\/p>\n

If the child is exposed to a good environment, then the good effect of the environment will rub onto the child. <\/span><\/p>\n

On the contrary, if the child is exposed to a bad environment, then the ill effect of the environment will rub onto the child.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. The parents should recite the Qur\u2019aan Majeed, make zikr, recite durood shareef and do kitaab reading in the presence of the child so that the child becomes familiar with the words of Allah Ta\u2018ala and Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam), and the noor of Islam positively impacts on the child.<\/p>\n

11. When the child begins to speak, then the first thing which the child should be taught is to recite kalimah tayyibah.<\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0625\u0628\u0631\u0627\u0647\u064a\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u064a\u0645\u064a \u060c \u0642\u0627\u0644 : \u0643\u0627\u0646\u0648\u0627 \u064a\u0633\u062a\u062d\u0628\u0648\u0646 \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u0644\u0642\u0646\u0648\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0635\u0628\u064a \u064a\u0639\u0631\u0628 \u0623\u0648\u0644 \u0645\u0627 \u064a\u062a\u0643\u0644\u0645 \u064a\u0642\u0648\u0644 \u0644\u0627 \u0625\u0644\u0647 \u0625\u0644\u0627 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0633\u0628\u0639 \u0645\u0631\u0627\u062a \u0648\u064a\u0643\u0648\u0646 \u0630\u0644\u0643 \u0623\u0648\u0644 \u0634\u064a\u0621 \u064a\u062a\u0643\u0644\u0645 \u0628\u0647. (\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0635\u0646\u0641 \u0644\u0627\u0628\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u0634\u064a\u0628\u0629\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 3519)<\/p>\n

Ibrahim at Taymi (rahimahullah) said: \u201cWhen a child would begin to speak, then the first thing the Sahabah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhum) would like to teach the child is to recite the kalimah \u2018La ilaha illallah\u2019 seven times so that this kalimah is the first thing that the child speaks in his life.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

12. One should instil the importance of salaah in the child from a young age. The Hadith teaches us that we should instil the importance of salaah in a child from the age of seven and when he reaches ten, he should be disciplined if he does not perform salaah.<\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0639\u0645\u0631\u0648 \u0628\u0646 \u0634\u0639\u064a\u0628\u060c \u0639\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a\u0647\u060c \u0639\u0646 \u062c\u062f\u0647\u060c \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645: \u0645\u0631\u0648\u0627 \u0623\u0648\u0644\u0627\u062f\u0643\u0645 \u0628\u0627\u0644\u0635\u0644\u0627\u0629 \u0648\u0647\u0645 \u0623\u0628\u0646\u0627\u0621 \u0633\u0628\u0639 \u0633\u0646\u064a\u0646\u060c \u0648\u0627\u0636\u0631\u0628\u0648\u0647\u0645 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647\u0627\u060c \u0648\u0647\u0645 \u0623\u0628\u0646\u0627\u0621 \u0639\u0634\u0631 \u0648\u0641\u0631\u0642\u0648\u0627 \u0628\u064a\u0646\u0647\u0645 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0636\u0627\u062c\u0639 (\u0633\u0646\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u062f\u0627\u0648\u062f\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 495)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Abdullah bin Amr (radhiyallahu \u2018anhuma) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cCommand your children to perform salaah when they reach the age of seven, and hit them if they neglect performing salaah when they reach the age of ten, and separate their beds (at the age of ten).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

13. One should teach the child good manners and etiquettes from a young age.<\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0639\u0645\u0631 \u0628\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a \u0633\u0644\u0645\u0629 \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0643\u0646\u062a \u063a\u0644\u0627\u0645\u0627 \u0641\u064a \u062d\u062c\u0631 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0648\u0643\u0627\u0646\u062a \u064a\u062f\u064a \u062a\u0637\u064a\u0634 \u0641\u064a \u0627\u0644\u0635\u062d\u0641\u0629 \u0641\u0642\u0627\u0644 \u0644\u064a \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645: \u064a\u0627 \u063a\u0644\u0627\u0645 \u0633\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0648\u0643\u0644 \u0628\u064a\u0645\u064a\u0646\u0643 \u0648\u0643\u0644 \u0645\u0645\u0627 \u064a\u0644\u064a\u0643 \u0641\u0645\u0627 \u0632\u0627\u0644\u062a \u062a\u0644\u0643 \u0637\u0639\u0645\u062a\u064a \u0628\u0639\u062f (\u0635\u062d\u064a\u062d \u0627\u0644\u0628\u062e\u0627\u0631\u064a\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 5376)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Umar bin Abi Salamah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhuma) relates: \u201cI grew up in the care of Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam). On one occasion, while eating with Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam), my hand began moving around the plate. Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) (lovingly) addressed me saying: \u2018O young boy, take the name of Allah Ta\u2019ala (upon the commencement of the meal), eat with your right hand and eat from the side that is before you.\u2019\u201d Hazrat Umar bin Abi Salamah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhuma) further says: \u201cThis remained my habit of eating thereafter.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

14. One should ensure that one\u2019s child is given the correct Islamic education and upbringing from a young age. The basics of deen should be taught to the child (i.e. the correct aqaaid, taharah, wudhu, salaah, social etiquettes, etc). If one is unable to fulfil this deeni need at home, then one should enrol the child in a maktab or a madrasah.<\/span><\/p>\n

15. Teach your children adab (respect and islamic etiquette) and teach them to observe good character at all times when dealing with the creation.<\/p>\n

\u0639\u0646 \u0623\u064a\u0648\u0628 \u0628\u0646 \u0645\u0648\u0633\u0649 \u0639\u0646 \u0623\u0628\u064a\u0647 \u0639\u0646 \u062c\u062f\u0647 \u0623\u0646 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0645\u0627 \u0646\u062d\u0644 \u0648\u0627\u0644\u062f \u0648\u0644\u062f\u0627 \u0645\u0646 \u0646\u062d\u0644 \u0623\u0641\u0636\u0644 \u0645\u0646 \u0623\u062f\u0628 \u062d\u0633\u0646 (\u0633\u0646\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0631\u0645\u0630\u064a\u060c \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0642\u0645: 1952)<\/p>\n

Hazrat Ayyoob bin Moosa reports from his father who reports from his grandfather that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cNo father can give his child a better gift than the gift of (teaching him) good manners.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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