{"id":20225,"date":"2022-12-22T18:22:13","date_gmt":"2022-12-22T16:22:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=20225"},"modified":"2023-11-27T16:51:57","modified_gmt":"2023-11-27T14:51:57","slug":"sunnats-and-aadaab-of-interacting-with-ones-parents-part-9","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=20225","title":{"rendered":"Sunnats and Aadaab of Interacting with one\u2019s Parents \u2013 Part 3"},"content":{"rendered":"

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9. When you are staying with your parents, then before leaving the home to go anywhere or embarking on any work out of the home, take their permission before leaving.<\/p>\n

Similarly, when you are in their company and wish to leave, then inform them before leaving.<\/p>\n

10. When speaking to others about your parents, refer to them in a respectful manner (e.g. \u201cmy respected father\/abba said this\u201d). Similarly, when speaking about them, speak about them with love and honour.<\/p>\n

11. When one is engaged in any activity with his parents, then always give preference to them over oneself. For example, when you eat with them, then give them the food first and allow them to commence with the meal first. Do not commence the meal before them.<\/p>\n

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Hazrat Aaishah (radhiyallahu \u2018anha) reports that on one occasion, a person came to Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) accompanied by an old man. Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) asked him, \u201cWho is this person (referring to the old man)?\u201d He replied, \u201cThis is my father.\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) then advised him regarding the rights of his father saying, \u201c(When you walk with him,) you should not walk in front of him, (and when you both reach a gathering,) you should not sit before he sits, (and when you address him,) do not call him by his name, and do not become the cause for others swearing him (i.e. do not insult people\u2019s parents, as they will insult your parents).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

12. After the demise of one\u2019s parents, one should continue to show honour and respect to the relatives and friends of one\u2019s parents.<\/p>\n

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It is reported regarding Hazrat Abdullah bin Umar (radhiyallahu \u2018anhuma) that on one occasion (after the demise of his father Hazrat Umar (radhiyallahu \u2018anhu)), he met a bedouin on his way to Makkah Mukarramah. He greeted him with salaam, offered him the donkey that he was riding and gave him the turban that he was wearing. Hazrat Ibnu Dinaar (rahimahullah) mentioned to him, \u201cMay Allah Ta\u2018ala keep you in goodness! These people are bedouins and if you give them something small also, they will be pleased (i.e. there was no need for you to give him so much of wealth).\u201d Hazrat Abdullah bin Umar (radhiyallahu \u2018anhuma) replied, \u201cThis man\u2019s father was one of the close friends of (my father) Umar (radhiyallahu \u2018anhu), and I heard Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) mention, \u201cThe best form of obedience (to one\u2019s parents after their demise) is for the child to maintain good ties and relations with the friends of his father.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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Hazrat Abu Usayd Maalik ibn Rabee\u2019ah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhu) reports: \u201cOn one occasion, while we were seated in the mubaarak company of Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam), a man of the Banu Salamah tribe came to him and said, \u2018O Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam), is there any way left for me to be an obedient child to my parents after their demise?\u2019 Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) replied, \u2018Yes, making dua to Allah Ta\u2018ala to shower His mercy upon them, seeking forgiveness on their behalf, fulfilling the promises that they had made during their lifetime (and were unable to complete), joining family ties with those relatives who are joined to you through them, and showing honour and respect to their friends. (Through doing these actions, you will fulfil their rights and be written among the obedient children).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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