{"id":20074,"date":"2022-11-03T18:00:25","date_gmt":"2022-11-03T16:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=20074"},"modified":"2023-11-27T16:46:53","modified_gmt":"2023-11-27T14:46:53","slug":"sunnats-and-aadaab-of-interacting-with-ones-parents-part-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=20074","title":{"rendered":"Sunnats and Aadaab of Interacting with one\u2019s Parents \u2013 Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"

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4. When addressing your father, you should not call him by his name, rather you should use a title of love and respect such as Abba, etc.<\/p>\n

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Hazrat Aaishah (radhiyallahu \u2018anha) reports that on one occasion, a person came to Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) accompanied by an old man. Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) asked him, \u201cWho is this person (referring to the old man)?\u201d He replied, \u201cThis is my father.\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) then advised him regarding the rights of his father saying, \u201c(When you walk with him,) you should not walk in front of him, (and when you both reach a gathering,) you should not sit before he sits, (and when you address him,) do not call him by his name, and do not become the cause for others swearing him (i.e. do not insult people\u2019s parents, as they will insult your parents).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

5. One should regularly make dua for his parents. One may make the following dua which is recorded in the Qur\u2019aan Majeed to be made for parents:<\/p>\n

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My Lord! bestow <\/em>up<\/em>on them <\/em>Your<\/em> (special) <\/em>Mercy as they <\/em>brought me up<\/em> me in childhood.<\/em><\/p>\n

6. One should have deep love and great affection for his parents in his heart. At all times, one should deal with his parents with love and affection and show them mercy and compassion. It is reported in the hadith that by a person looking at his parents with love and mercy, then each time he looks at them with mercy, he will receive the reward of an accepted Nafl Hajj.<\/p>\n

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Hazrat Abdullah bin Abbaas (radhiyallahu \u2018anhuma) reports that Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) said, \u201cThere is no obedient child who looks at his parents with mercy (and love) except that Allah Ta\u2018ala records for him the reward of an accepted Hajj for every time he looks (at his parents with mercy)\u201d The Sahaabah (radhiyallahu \u2018anhum) asked, \u201cEven if he looks one hundred times every day?\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) replied, \u201cYes, Allah Ta\u2018ala is the greatest and He is much more bountiful (His reward is much more than you can imagine).\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

7. One should not ask his parents to do any work for him. Rather, he should remain in their service at all times. Similarly, according to one\u2019s ability, one should make an effort to fulfil their wishes and acquire for them what they desire.<\/p>\n

8. If one\u2019s parents are old and poor, then one should support them and see to their needs and necessities. The responsibility of taking care of one\u2019s old and poor parents lies on the shoulders of the children.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

4. When addressing your father, you should not call him by his name, rather you should use a title of love and respect such as Abba, etc. \u0639\u0646 \u0639\u0627\u0626\u0634\u0629 \u0642\u0627\u0644\u062a: \u0623\u062a\u0649 \u0631\u0633\u0648\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0635\u0644\u0649 \u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0644\u064a\u0647 \u0648\u0633\u0644\u0645 \u0631\u062c\u0644 \u0648\u0645\u0639\u0647 \u0634\u064a\u062e \u0641\u0642\u0627\u0644: \u064a\u0627 \u0641\u0644\u0627\u0646 \u0645\u0646 \u0647\u0630\u0627 \u0645\u0639\u0643\u0645 \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0623\u0628\u064a \u0642\u0627\u0644: \u0641\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u0645\u0634 \u0623\u0645\u0627\u0645\u0647 \u0648\u0644\u0627 \u062a\u062c\u0644\u0633 \u0642\u0628\u0644\u0647 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":18534,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[64,819],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20074","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-sunnats","category-sunnats-and-aadaab-of-interacting-with-ones-parents"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20074","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=20074"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20074\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21336,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20074\/revisions\/21336"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/18534"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=20074"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=20074"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=20074"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}