{"id":12016,"date":"2018-04-03T17:00:06","date_gmt":"2018-04-03T15:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=12016"},"modified":"2021-08-16T14:37:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-16T12:37:06","slug":"aadaab-when-interacting-with-ones-elders-part-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=12016","title":{"rendered":"INTERACTING WITH ELDERS \u2013 PART TWO"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Aadaab When Interacting with Elders<\/h3>\n

1. Always show respect to your elders from within your heart and outwardly as well, regardless of whether they are your parents, teachers, family members, etc.[1]<\/sup><\/p>\n

2. Address your elders using respectable names or titles. For example, if the person is an Aalim then call him with the title \u201cMoulana\u201d. If he is a Haafiz of the Quraan Majeed then call him with the title \u201cHaafiz Saheb\u201d.[2]<\/sup><\/p>\n

3. When addressing your father, you should not call him by his name, rather you should use a title of love and respect such as Abba, etc.See[2]<\/sup><\/p>\n

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Hazrat Aaishah (radhiyallahu \u2018anha) reports that on one occasion, a person came to Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) accompanied by an old man. Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) asked him, \u201cWho is this person (referring to the old man)?\u201d He replied, \u201cThis is my father.\u201d Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) then advised him regarding the rights of his father saying, \u201c(When you walk with him,) you should not walk in front of him, (and when you both reach a gathering,) you should not sit before he sits, (and when you address him,) do not call him by his name, and do not become the cause for others swearing him (i.e. do not insult people\u2019s parents, as they will insult your parents)\u201d<\/em>[3]<\/sup><\/p>\n

4. Do not call your elders by nicknames.[4]<\/sup><\/p>\n

5. When speaking about your parents, ustaads, elders, etc., refer to them in a respectful manner.See[2]<\/sup><\/p>\n

6. When any elder comes to greet you and make musaafahah with you while you are seated, then out of respect, you should stand up to greet them. Do not greet them and make musaafahah with them while you are seated.[5]<\/sup><\/p>\n

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