{"id":10218,"date":"2018-01-23T06:20:02","date_gmt":"2018-01-23T04:20:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=10218"},"modified":"2021-08-14T08:54:12","modified_gmt":"2021-08-14T06:54:12","slug":"sunnats-and-aadaab-of-visiting-the-bereaved-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ihyaauddeen.co.za\/?p=10218","title":{"rendered":"Sunnats and Aadaab of Consoling the Bereaved \u2013 Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"

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1. It is permissible to praise the deceased. However, when praising him, ensure that you do not exaggerate or praise him for characteristics that were not found in him. Similarly, do not adopt the styles and ways of the kuffaar in praising him.[1]<\/sup><\/p>\n

2. The period of ta\u2019ziyat is three days from the day of demise. After the third day, it is makrooh to go for ta\u2019ziyat. However, if a person could not present himself for ta\u2019ziyat within the three days due to being out on a journey, then when he returns from the journey, he may go for ta\u2019ziyat, even though the three days have elapsed.[2]<\/sup><\/p>\n

3. It is makrooh for a person to make ta\u2019ziyat for a second time when he has already made ta\u2019ziyat before.[2]<\/sup><\/p>\n

4. It is preferable to make ta\u2019ziyat after the burial. However, it is permissible to make ta\u2019ziyat before the burial.[2]<\/sup><\/p>\n

5. If a person cannot present himself for ta\u2019ziyat due to certain circumstances, then he may write a letter or send a message of condolence to the family of the deceased.<\/p>\n

6. Hazrat Rasulullah (sallallahu \u2018alaihi wasallam) comforted the bereaved in the following words:<\/p>\n

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To Allah Ta\u2018ala alone belongs that which He takes, and to Him alone belongs that which He gives. Everything remains until an appointed time (after which it will be taken away from this world). Therefore, adopt patience and hope for reward from Allah Ta\u2018ala.<\/em>[3]<\/sup><\/p>\n

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